[Terry: I’m just wondering what they can teach a 60+ Grumpy Old Man, but that’s just me.]
A recent study found that people over the age of 55 tend to be happier than any other age group. So what can the rest of us learn from them?
1. Stress Less
A lot of us have jobs that lend themselves to stressing too much and playing too little. Do yourself a favor and don’t take yourself (or your work) so seriously. Of course, you still need to work hard, but take time to not only enjoy what you’re doing, but also take breaks when you feel overwhelmed. Go for a short walk outside or talk to a friend. Many people over the age of 55 are near retirement and have learned to not stress over work issues and are happier for it!
2. Smile More
Did you know that those aged 35 to 44 smile less than any other age group? Shockingly, 5% of people in that age group admit that they never smile! Can you imagine not ever cracking a smile? More than 50% of those over 55, however, smile more than 10 times a day. As I mentioned in this post, smiling can reduce blood pressure, release endorphins, and is actually contagious! So if all else fails, surround yourself with happy people!
I’ll leave you with some great advice from a few happy seniors:
“You are not responsible for all the things that happen to you, but you are completely in control of your attitude and your reactions to them.” ~ A 75-year-old man
“Adopt a policy of being joyful.” ~ A 84-year-old man
“I learned to be grateful for what I have, and no longer bemoan what I don’t have or can’t do.” ~ A 90-year-old woman
What age do you think you were the happiest? Do you think you’ve gotten happier as you’ve gotten older?
- Happsters’ 10 happiness quotes (motivatingforpositivechange.wordpress.com)